Friday, January 15, 2021

Day Five: Showing Up by Staying Home...

 

Alright… I did it, kinda. I dragged my ass out of bed this morning at 6:00 AM and yes, again, I was 30 minutes late, but I got the COVID19 shot yesterday and my arm… Me, me, me, me, me... Sore arm, me, me...Wait a second… I got up 30 minutes late because I failed to get up at 5:30 AM like I was supposed to. The alarm went off at 5:21 AM and I hit the snooze four times instead of once. If nothing else, this writing project is going to force me to stop making excuses. Now, I may have failed in getting up, but I carefully did a partial ½ Murph, not in record time and not with any impressive speed, but I did it. That first set was about as careful as old people fuck and the second not any faster, but I am slowly making headway towards 100%. For those of you who have not read my previous stuff a ½ Murph is:

100 Burpees

150 Squats

100 pushups

50 pullups

I break all my numbers down into 5 sets because at my age, doing 100 burpees in a row might not turn out so well in the end… In fact, it might be my end. So I do five sets of:

10 Burpees

15 Squats

10 Push-ups

5 Pull-ups

15 Squats

10 Push-ups

5 Pull-ups

10 Burpees

My fastest time for five sets is 17 minutes and 45 seconds… My time for TWO sets today was 15 minutes and 52 seconds. So not my best time, I did not finish and even though I failed, I showed up… That is what we are going to talk about today… Showing up without going anywhere…

The gym is fine, do not get me wrong but the gym is far away… It involves getting up, getting dressed, finding your gear, getting in your car, truck or van, and driving to the gym… Going inside, setting up for your workout, working out with multiple instances of waiting on some sweaty human to finish on the machine you need and sometimes that person is a total dick leaving their body fluids on the machine you want to use… So you can either:

A)  wipe it off

B)  confront them

C)  go tell on them

D)  Just lie down in their pool of sweat (which sometimes happens when you are not paying attention)  

E)  skip that part of your workout…    

None of that is pleasant… No one wants to clean up after a stranger and no one wants to confront some low brow meathead hopped up on some chemical pre-workout drink at 6:00 AM in the morning or after a long day at work or really any fucking time… Meatheads aren’t approachable when buzzing off energy drinks and narcissism… Free advice – Do not approach a person about their inconsiderate behavior when they look like the reflection in a funhouse mirror or you see veins the size of oak tree roots in the shoulders, chest and forearms… They do not like it because it interferes with them gazing lovingly at their own reflections in the endless gym mirrors… Only approach these people with questions about them or how to be like them otherwise, just wipe off the machine…

After your workout, you can gather up your stuff, walk from the warm and pungent venue out into the parking lot and drive home… Now let me point out that pungent isn’t always bad… Frying onions have a rather pungent, pleasant odor but the pungent of the gym isn’t like that… The pungency of the gym is a group of sweaty, farting, belching and heavily breathing people all mixing their perfume into a stew of human incense that you really wouldn’t want to burn… Secondly if you have ever driven to the gym in cold weather, it takes you 15 minutes to get warmed up once you arrive and the rush of freezing air that greets you at the exit when you are drenched in sweat with greased up joints and warm muscles doesn’t feel good. Your car, which probably did not have time to even get lukewarm has chilled back to outside temperature and driving home is like one of those polar bear swims they do on Lake Erie in February. You know, when they cut a hole in the ice and people with death wishes go swimming? Alright, I did not have a death wish but when I jumped into the water, time stopped, and I screamed like my eight year old daughter on a cheap county fair roller coaster… (Skip ahead to 1:20 for the scream…)

Now doesn’t all that sound like getting in shape is great fun? Nope… Well I have a solution. It takes away the excuse that I hear ALL the time now… “Well, I have gained weight BUT AS SOON AS THE PANDEMIC IS OVER, I’LL GO BACK TO THE GYM…” Let’s look at that… The gym is empty right now I will give everyone that… Nobody wants to acquire COVID19 at the gym because that’s like leaning into a left hook. The grocery store? Yeah, of course, everyone needs food and if you risk your life for food and get COVID19 that’s understandable and even I, in my cynicism would feel empathy for you. But tell me you got COVID19 at the gym and I might show up at your oxygen tent just so I could see a real life idiot… Just joking because I’m not going near a hospital right now, but I will nod knowingly and possibly giggle when I get the text message about your plight… Now if that pissed you off, I go skydiving and if I bounce off the runway because my shoot didn’t open, feel free to do the same… Now while I am sorta, kinda joking hear me out. If you are talking to me and you tell me that you continue your gym excursions in the middle of the worst part of this pandemic, I won’t directly say anything rude but if you really want to know my feelings, take a good look at my face when you tell me, if you have any psychology training or interactional intuition, you’ll see it… It’s that smirk that ripples under the surface of my face, almost imperceptible, but believe me, inside my head, there is some raucous laughter at your choices…

My point after all that is this… Your reason for not going to the gym during the pandemic is not an excuse, it is a solid reason. Totally reasonable, logical, and valid. However, your reason for your weight gain and not working out? Therein lies the worthless excuse. There are ways to workout that do not lie within the walls of a gym….

Let’s talk about one that doesn’t involve leaving the house but first,  let’s get the top two excuses out of the way…

“I’m only motivated to workout at the gym…”  That’s like saying you are only horny in a bed… I personally can fuck just about anywhere except in public, but I also don’t work out in public because making orgasm noises around groups of strangers bothers me…  Lifting weights and working out noises sound a lot like orgasms…  Think about that…

“I don’t have any equipment…”  You don’t have equipment? Do you have legs? Arms? Do you have body weight? Are you susceptible to gravity? Then you pretty much have what you need for  a strenuous, difficult, sweat inducing workout right in your home…  If you seriously just MUST have equipment, stop throwing money at the gym and invest in kettle balls, exercise bands, a doorway pullup bar… Can’t stop throwing money because of a gym contract? *snorts laughter* Sorry about that…  If you need direction, invest in BeachBody Online or some other subscription service. BeachBody Online has dozens of programs and hundreds of workouts far cheaper than any personal trainer. This is the 21st century, you can have so many things right in your home now, so during the pandemic, take advantage of the technology you pay for…

Again, my point here isn’t to shame you for loving the gym, it’s shaming you for pretending to love the gym and telling yourself that as soon as the gym reopens safely, you will return and burn off a year of no exercise… Honestly, how much did you use the gym before the pandemic? Tell the truth…

So you can put up with this…


You can wait for this:

 


 Or you can do this:



 Plus you can do this in your underwear with JBF hair, bad breath and a hole in your panties… Or manties, if you’re so inclined. Instead of the travel routine to sojourn to the gym daily, do what I do… Roll out of bed, put on a t-shirt and underwear, turn on some music and get to work…

 So pick five or so bodyweight challenges off the internet and get in a real workout… Need cardio? Try a HIIT workout… Need group motivation? Challenge your friends, family and co-workers and setup zoom workouts, text each other, ridicule each other… Fuck, if you don’t have anyone, email me and I will accept your challenge… Plank, sit-ups, push-ups, squats, wall siting, burpees… All exercises that will kick your ass and you can still Instagram them… A huge bonus about working out from home is that you can set up an Instagram photo shoot and not be in someone’s way while or look like a totally self absorbed asshole…

You know, while your planking, call your mom, she probably wants to hear from you… Unless you have a mom like mine, then, call a stranger, they will appreciate it more…

Let’s get through this shit and come out on the other side better people, more motivated, focused and healthy…

See you tomorrow!

 

 


 

 

 

 

 







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